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Friday, January 30, 2009
Seorang mak boleh menjaga 10 anak, tapi kekadang 10 orang anak pun tak dapat nak jaga seorang emak.
That is a phrase that I have heard and learned before in school. But I never really understand and see for myself what that phrase means.
I have search for some article with the above phrase and I found it interesting that google come out with a lot of stories, such as:
Anak ramai belum tentu ibu bapa bahagia
Kasih ibu
Menjaga Mak & Ayah
I must admit before this that I also think that taking care of our elderly is something that is out of the question since we also have our own family and daily jobs to attend to.
But after thinking clearly and see all the aspect of it, I came to realize that taking care of your elderly required more patience, money, sacrifice that I first thought of.
For me, I will do anything that I can and whatever things that will happen is up to God's will.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
The year 2009 is crawling?
Is it just me or anyone else felt that the year 2009 is crawling? I mean it is only the 21st January? It felt like already months into this year!
Maybe with the happenings that had happen it makes me feel like the days are going by so slowly. Maybe I am getting old..or maybe my life is just too boring.
My Vanessa is already 14 months old yesterday(19th Jan), this 3rd Feb will be our 2nd year wedding anniversary, 17th Feb will be 19 years after dad left us, 16th April I will turn 30 years young, with so much landmark this year I would really need a good start to the year but..
Whatever it is, life must go on no matter what.
BTW, I hate wednesday.
Cheers.
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
New blog theme today
I noticed my last theme was loading quite slow so I decided to pick a new theme today. It took me around 1 hour to put everything in place and test it. Of course too much ads, widgets, pictures etc will make a page loads longer. So I deleted some widgets and put just the basics in.
After that, I tried Web Page Analyzer for loading and download test and got the result below:
WtF? 8 seconds loading time? Still a bit slow I guess. But this is the best I can find at the moment.Is your blog loading time bother you that much?
Saturday, January 10, 2009
Macam dalam gambar bah!!
But you get some burger such as this:
So, I just want to say:
Mau yang macam dalam gambar bahhh!
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
A new year, hopefully a new beginning of my life.
It is already 6th of January 2009 and I already felt as if it is months into year 2009 because of some happenings in my life.
I celebrate the new year eve at home with my wife and 1 year old daughter eating KFC and watching DVDs only, and it seems the best new year I have for years. With my daughter Vanessa going into year 2 of her life, I have been thinking a lot more about the near future e.g what happen when she will start schooling at 5? where will she be schooling whether in KK or in Papar, when is the right time to have another child with all the financial crisis that we are having now, should I be looking for another job since we are not getting our salary improved to a satisfactory level currently..and many more.
And on the night of January 5th, I found my elderly mum lying outside my house unable to walk due to a fall(what seems to be a light fall at first observation) and now she is in QEH with some bleeding in the brain and hopefully getting stable and better(still waiting for further results). I was told an operation is out of the question because of her age(80+ years old). The good news is that she still talking and recognizing most of us when we visit her. A good sign indeed.
This incident caused me to think more of what should I or any other siblings in the family to do to take care of my mum after she is permitted to go home later. I know my wife and me will not be able to take good care of her since we are only at home 7.30pm-7.30am everyday when we work in KK.
Will it require hiring a maid to take care of her?
Even if my wife becoming a full time housewife she will be very occupied taking care of Vanessa and will not be able to help my mum at home.
Can she live in my sister's house in KK for a longer period? Maybe. But I dunno they are all also very busy with their own work dealings and family.
Maybe being the youngest in my family and still living in the same house with my mum does leave me the extra burden of taking care of her. But I just don't know what to do. It is good enough that I did not leave home and live in a house nearby KK to make life much more easier in terms of transportation for me.
But I like living in a small town like Papar which is not as busy and stressful like in KK, and the parking are still free somemore! LOL.
Today is just 6th of January but there are a lots of thinking to do for me and my family.
And I will be reminding myself that "Life is all about making the right choices" every time a problem arising.
Life must and will go on no matter what.
Happy Belated New Year everyone.
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